When I was 18, every single thing took forever. You remember that, don't you? Waiting for summer vacation, studying and waiting for exams, it was all endless slow-motion molasses. I would have been in university then, and I can remember waiting for spring to unfold, for the first fine leaves to actually get somewhere close to opening like a hand, unfurling, and shading summer. I was eager to finish school, to get published, to find a job. I was eager for everything, and restless when it didn't h...